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How To Persuade A Partner To Use Safer Sex

Answers To A Partner's Excuses Who Doesn't Want To Use Safer Sex Techniques

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Following are some comments that might be made by a partner and some answers that you could try.


          EXCUSE

ANSWER

Don't you trust me?

Trust isn't the point, people can have infections without realizing it

It does not feel as good with a condom

I'll feel more relaxed, If I am more relaxed, I can make it feel better for you.

I don't stay hard when I put on a condom

I'll help you put it on, that will help you keep it hard.

I am afraid to ask him to use a condom. He'll think I don't trust him.

If you can't ask him, you probably don't trust him.

I can't feel a thing (or it isn't as sensitive) when I wear a condom

Maybe that way you'll last even longer and that will make up for it

I don't have a condom with me

I do

It's up to him... it's his decision

It's your health. It should be your decision too!

I'm on the pill, you don't need a condom

I'd like to use it anyway. It will help to protect us from infections we may not realize we have.

Putting it on interrupts everything

Not if I help put it on

I guess you don't really love me

I do, but I am not risking my future to prove it

I will pull out in time

Women can get pregnant and get STDs from pre-ejaculate

But I love you

Then you'll help us to protect ourselves.

Just this once

Once is all it takes

 

 


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